Addressing YOU – single female

Across the globe we are facing the same plague of being young single females with the hope of meeting Mr. Right. Do you know what type of partner you are looking for? What can you offer a partner?

Firstly you should list the type of partner you want and maybe this is something you should continue to have at the forefront of your mind, when looking out for a partner.... however not at the point you dismiss someone straight away if they do not have the required qualities. Once you have recognized this look at the possibilities of:

* A short term relationship..whether just for physical needs or just to go out to places now and again (so maybe what you required in a man is not as serious as a long term relationship..and you turn a blind eye to certain things)

* A Long term relationship...leading to marriage. Therefore you are not just looking for a man..you are looking for your soul mate

Once you have established this, you then need to find what you can give to a man/relationship, here are some pointers for you to ask yourself which may help in addressing YOU:

* Spending more time with & in God - through reading & incorporating scripture into your daily life than you currently do, fasting & praying

* Mentally - establishing what you want in your life,

* Physically - getting you physically into a higher level than it is currently, to incorporate hair and beauty

* Being Financially comfortable

* Doing all the things you need and want to do as a single person

Acknowledging the above will provide you with the clarity to express clearly who you are, to enable doors to be opened for you in finding and choosing your soul mate.

Also in all this thinking you need to reveal it to God so to help you with your clarity. However even with this plan, God has the final say, as he may have other plans for you ? We have all experienced some form of relationship, ask yourself are you any closer to identifying the key aspects that are important to you within a relationship, within a man and within yourself.

Why do we not prepare ourselves more before we go into a relationship? If you have decided you want a long term relationship..can you honestly say in your heart that you are marriage material now? on todays date?

Take time out for you and set some goals

By Gail